big girl in a small city

a big girl's neurotic oddessy through life in a city with country town soul.

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I'm a sporadic organisational psychology phd student, full time day dreamer of alternative careers: cafe/bookshop/day spa lifestyle village empire entrepreneur; artist; travel writer; domestic goddess; property developer; fashion designer; retiree; organic farm/bed n breakkie; wife to billionaire heir; buddhist nun. when i'm not entertaining the above in my head, i'm busy navigating through life battling with myself to find eternal happiness armed with a skinny hazelnut flatwhite in my hand, twinkle of passion in my eyes, love in my heart and a barrage of great friends n family by my side.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

a buddhist wedding?


hmph, i didn't think Buddha really endorsed weddings..

but it didn't stop me being over joyed to be at an old friend's wedding at the Buddhist temple in Maylands.. have to say it's probably THE wedding for the year.. they are the sweetest couple ever! and practically everyone i know was there..

there were lots of people, noise, red everywhere, traditional Chinese costumes, yummy vegetarian treats, a 3-tier cake with the double-happiness Chinese character on it, and endless photo taking (we all had to line up for photos with the couple and i must've been in the queue for 5 different photos in different combination of friends and family.. it must be an Chinese thing)!! it's been a while since i was last surrounded by such festivity, and it's times like this.. i quite enjoyed all the Chineseness!

and recently, i've discovered i've got a shameful habit when it comes to weddings..

i cry.. yup.. like a girl.. the minute any mention of love, forever, vows, soul mate, the sight of the couple looking deep into each other's eyes, the smiles exchanged, holding hands,.. and the water works is ON! .. i have no control what-so-ever!! ARGH.. pisses me off no end.. the thought that i just fit so snuggly into the warm fuzzy girlie stereotype.. crying at wedding..pfftttt.. i would've laughed at anyone who did that 5 years ago.. and now i find myself biting my lips, tears welling in my eyes, whilst subtly rolling my tissues into a fine tip so i can soak up the tears without ruining my mascara!

sigh.. i've gone soft..what's next? pink outfits in my wardrobe?!?! ARRGGHHH!!!


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